There are certain things that should be left for your personal life. If you are using social media simply for social purposes and your still in school, retired or independently wealthy this article does not apply to you. Otherwise, listen up!
1. Stay away from Discussing Political Issues:
If you have connected with me on a social media site through our common interest in business then you should not discuss politics. I see this in normal conversation, as well. There is an assumption that if one is in the same business or profession one also shares the same political beliefs. This could be no farther from the truth. People that know me well know that my views on one topic can be on one end of the spectrum and on another it can be at the other end. Very few people have the exact political views as you.
I believe business is business and usually do not let someone's political beliefs cloud my decision as whether or not to engage in business with them. There has been that exception where someone seems to be unbalanced to the point where I believe it will cloud business decisions, however.
Many other people are turned off by anyone who holds different beliefs. There have been numerous times people have told me something to the effect of, "I won't do business with that right wing ... or left wing .... " Why take the chance? Leave politics out of it.
It's fine to let people know your a Democrat or Republican or to follow your favorite candidates but don't get in my face about controversial issues. In otherwords, don't be a zealot and expect that it won't hurt business.
2. Don't Play Games With Me:
Are you serious about running your business or about your profession? If you hooked up with me to obtain business advise then don't ask me about Farmville, the Mafia or your virtual garden. I'm amazed at the number of so called entrepreneurs that seem to have so much time for such foolishness.
I have the utmost respect for most people that work in government. My first 15 years of professional life was in state and local government, but there are many out there that have disdain for government employees. That's why I was aghast at one such employee who during office hours would continually update me on their farm, gemstones or garden. What message does this send? Are they working or playing?
I don't care if you want to play these social games but if you are trying to impress me with your work ethic or if your profession is publicly srutinized, don't do it during office hours and don't clutter my "Notifications" site with eggs, vegetables and gemstones that you have gifted to me.
3. Don't Burn Bridges:
I have seen people harangue about their former employer or boss ad nauseum on Facebook. I'm sure the feeling is, "I'm out of there what can it hurt?" Well how many people that read your posts are still connected with that company or boss? What does your current employer think about it? If you trash your former employer what are you saying about your current one or what will you say when you eventually leave?
The other part of bad mouthing anyone publicly is that it just generally reflects badly on the person doing it. I, and probably many others feel it demonstrates, pettiness and a lack of maturity. This is better left in a private conversation with your best friend, sibling or parent.
4. Do Let me Know Appropriate Feelings and Special Events:
Social media is, after all meant to be social. I know there are business people out there that have no time for your children's pictures, birthday parties or your mood. My feeling is that this is an opportunity to get to know those I conduct business with on a deeper level and the more you know about a customer, supplier or business partner the better you can serve them.
Of course, by now everyone should know that there are inappropriate personal things I should not know about my business associates. Keep those to yourself please!
The entire time I was writing this article, it seemed I was missing a "Don't" that I wanted to include. I imagine over the next few months I may discover others. Do you have some "Don'ts" that I missed? Let all of us know by commenting below.
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